Free sexy flirting for married people

Don’t delude yourself: most spouses believe sending a ­passionate, ­suggestive text to someone else is tantamount to ­infidelity.

You have only to remember Tess Daly’s stricken face when it was revealed her husband Vernon Kay had been ‘sexting’ another woman to know how ­seriously such actions are taken by the betrayed spouse.

Whatever you call them, flirty text messages are the reality for most people dating in 2017.

And text message flirting can be just as scary as in-person flirting.

And don’t expect all the impetus to come from him: it takes two to tango. Ask yourself when you last bought underwear for his benefit or initiated sex.

Surely this is the moment to look for a job and assert an independence your spouse will probably find intriguing.

You are looking for exhilaration in the wrong place when you really need to inject some excitement back into your marriage.

The key word in your letter is ‘excitement’, juxtaposed with the dullness of your domestic life.

What you really crave is an electric ­lifeline to a more thrilling ­existence, not sex with a stranger.

He ended up seeing a shrink because he was so addicted to the correspondence.

‘I became ­agitated if I didn’t check my ­computer every 20 minutes,’ he said.

Free sexy flirting for married people